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Two Things We Need to Know About Our Dog’s Performance (and Ours), Part II
Posted on November 22, 2014 at 3:26 AM |
In
the first part of this blog topic, I talked about how stress can impact both
our performance and that of our dogs—with an underlying point in mind. And that point was: expecting better performances from our dogs
than we could achieve with comparable
training under similar circumstances is expecting way too much. Dogs
are outstanding at being dogs,
certainly: Tinker is aces at chewing bones, chasing raccoons and sniffing
poo. If the performances we wanted from
our dogs were entirely up their natural alleys, we’d all have obedience
champs. But most of what we want them to
do is not that: we’d rather they did weird humany-type things
like ignore food on a table, walk exactly at our sides like a couple holding
hands and leave off chasing squirrels because they love us. We want, in short, them to behave like civilized sort of folk dialed into our
human lifestyles: performances every bit
as peculiar to them as dressing fashionably, speaking eight languages and dashing
off algebraic equations are to me. And just as I could, possibly, with sufficient
education and training, become a fashionista, learn French and figure out the
square root of something (x)a – (b), many dogs, thanks to thousands of years of
domestication, can manage to meet our odd demands remarkably well. But
there has to be that sufficient education and training. And the higher and more challenging the
demands, the more they need of it. Which
leads me to my second, potentially painful point about performance—and
expectations. If
you have a dog and you’re keen to teach the dog Behavior X, it makes perfectly
good sense to look to someone who has taught many dogs to do Behavior X. In fact, it looks even more fabulous to Go
Big: not just someone who has taught dogs Behavior X, but someone who
has won trophies and ribbons for teaching dogs Behavior X. Wait—let’s Go Bigger—let’s, by gum, go to the
top of the mountain—the trainer/handlers who have won National or World
Championships with dogs doing Behavior X.
Because golly, anyone who is
among the elite of performance stars must surely
know what it takes to get there. If
you want to learn how to act, who better than Meryl Streep? For golf, Tiger Woods. For training a dog, the latest and greatest
in world champion protection, obedience or agility dog trainers. And if Ms. Streep achieved success using the Emotional
Chameleon Method of Acting, surely we can’t go wrong adopting EC Method. If Mr. Woods became the number one in golf
by using Y Brand Golf Clubs and the Secret Tiger Swing Technique, that must be
the ticket to golf success. So naturally
if Olag the exotic dog trainer from Bulgaria won his World Championship Schutzhund
title with his Magic Bulgarian Police Dog Method, we should all run out and buy
his DVDs and emulate the Magic Bulgarian Police Dog Method with our pooches at
home. Makes sense, right? The
appeal is obvious, even intuitive, and has just enough truth in it to get us
into trouble. Here’s
the part that is true: if we want to get
better at something, we can and should take advantage of our very wonderful
experts in all fields. Whether it’s
improving our cooking, our money management skills or our ability to get Fido
to perform better around the house or in a doggy sport, there are people out
there who can really help us. Finding
role models and emulating them is an excellent path to skill development. Being inspired by the heroes and champions in
our favorite performance activities is—well, inspiring. There are a few “catches,” though. I
have no doubt that if I took a series of master acting classes from Ms. Streep,
I would be a better actor for it. I
would likely make improvements in that performance craft, maybe get more in
touch with my Inner Emotional Chameleon.
So, no doubt, have the thousands of hopeful young actors who have
followed her career and attempted to emulate her. What is immediately striking, though, is
this: not a single one of them has ever become Meryl Streep. They
may have become much improved actors, they may have even gone on to great
accomplishments in their own rights, but they don’t have what Ms. Streep has
and never will, however great they become and however many Oscars they rack up
on their own mantels. Because, simply,
there is only one Meryl Streep. And her
greatest performances were singularities--precious rarities, by
definition. The Oscar for Best
Performance by a Leading Actress isn’t given out like candy--it’s one a year. And what made her great performances great
had very, very little to do with her acting method
and very much to do with her acting talent. Among
other things. An Oscar-winning
performance in a major motion picture isn’t just about an acting method, or
acting talent—it’s a collaborative effort involving the right script, the right
director, a damned good editor, composer, lighting director, marketing and
boatloads of money. It can also come
down to some other amazing Oscar-worthy
actress not having a particularly
juicy part that year playing a beloved historical figure with a photogenic
disease and a glorious death scene. It
turns out, in short, that learning Meryl Streep’s acting method isn’t likely to get me, or those thousands of young
hopefuls, an Oscar any time soon. I also
have to have some things comparable to Ms. Streep’s talent, Ms. Streep’s
cheekbones, Ms. Streep’s writer, director and agent—and, I would venture, her years
of experience honing her craft and a formidable professional work ethic. Still,
I would expect my imaginary acting lessons with Ms. Streep would be helpful to
me as an actor: given that I’m starting
at, say, a 2 out of 10 on the Act-O-Meter, I might learn enough to achieve a 4
or 5 or even a 6. When it comes to my
hypothetical golf lessons with Tiger Woods, though, I think we would have more
of a problem. The
problem is: Tiger’s too good and unless he’s a brilliant instructor as well as a golfer, he may not know how to come down as
far as he would need to. Which would be,
oh, around a .5 on the Golf-O-Meter. I have swung a golf club before; sometimes
the ball goes somewhere vaguely promising.
I know the difference between a Driver and a Putter. I haven’t actually hit anyone with my
backstroke, though I would advise Mr. Woods to keep a safe distance. But for all practical purposes, I’m not ready
for Tiger, and golf—unlike acting—is a physical
skill that simply can’t be faked. I can fake acting—that’s rather the
point. I can’t fake a golf swing. And at my level, to learn the first
fundamentals of a proper golf swing, I’d probably be infinitely better off with
the lovely pro at our local golf resort, who is used to working with rank
beginners like me. I might, if I won the
lotto, quit my job, and took up golf with an all-consuming passion, eventually become good enough to benefit from my lessons
with Mr. Woods. Or, I might not. Probably not. I
can certainly become a better golfer, possibly even a reasonably proficient
recreational golfer; a professional level golfer, no. If I had started when I was tiny following
Mama or Papa around the club (which is how most pros get started), I would have
had the 10-15 years of practice perfecting my swing by the time I reached the
age to compete in college. If I was a
naturally talented athlete with loads of practice in another stick/ball
hand-eye coordination sport—baseball, hockey, tennis—I might have been able to
switch to golf in my teens and still have enough years to get enough swing
practice in. Now, even with Mr. Woods’
brand of golf clubs (wildly outside of my price range, I’m sure) and
instruction in the Secret Tiger Swing Technique, I still couldn’t get there—my
days of athletic prime are a decade or two behind me, and I simply haven’t got
enough physically fit years left to practice
the Secret Tiger Swing. Not long enough
to get really good at it. And
as with Ms. Streep, what makes Tiger Woods Tiger
Woods isn’t a method. It’s having the talent, the athletic prowess,
the drive, the ambition and the work ethic it takes to live, eat, drink and
breathe golf for years from a very
young age. It’s having the right
coaches, the chances to play the right tournaments, get sponsors, a good
manager, etc. It’s avoiding injuries
(sadly, he hasn’t been able to for much of his later career.) And sometimes, winning a Major Tournament,
like winning an Oscar, comes down not to hitting the clutch hole-in-one but to
the opponent missing a crucial putt
at exactly the wrong time. World-class
athletes, like world-class actors, are unique, rarities by definition: plenty of young golfers have Tiger’s clubs,
Tiger’s outfits and try to copy Tiger’s swing.
They don’t necessarily have Tiger’s talent: method
isn’t enough. In fact, what Tiger Woods
brought to the next generation of golfers had precious little to do with method
or swing technique: what the new kids on
the golf block learned most from his example was to treat themselves like athletes—go to the gym, work out, get in
shape and stay in shape. Which
leads me, at last, to Olag the exotic dog trainer from Bulgaria with his World
Championship title and his Magic Bulgarian Police Dog Method. Or it might be Bessie the latest agility guru
and her RUN! Method or Flo the amazing long-time obedience goddess with her
HEEL! Method or Serena the lovely Freestyle champ with her PARTNERS method or…
pick your doggy sport or behavior issue, there will be experts—the elite of the
elite who consistently and reliably reach the pinnacles of their games. They are amazing trainers, every darned one
of them, and they have the titles and trophies to prove it. What
they don’t have—what none of us
has—is the slightest useful shred of scientific research or evidence to support
(or deny) that they reached their successes because
of a method. And
here it gets murky. What, exactly, is
meant by a method? We could say that Clicker Training,
Lure/Reward Training, Choke-Chain Training or Shock Collar Training are all methods—but that’s clearly not fine
enough. Lots of people—millions of
people—use one or more of those methods, just like thousands of actors are
emulating Meryl Streep and thousands more copying Tiger Woods’ golf swing. Only a handful of them are doing it well enough to win world championships
or elite titles. If simply adopting the
right magic method were the key to competition
and training success, everyone should
be winning. Clearly not. So
it looks like the method itself isn’t the point: it’s how excellently and
precisely the method is being executed.
And this boils down to: what is the trainer doing? Not saying.
Doing. And therein lies a whole other kettle of
fishies. Elite
competition dog trainers, like athletes in all sports, are a diverse bunch who
achieved their success on the Many Roads to the Mountain. Some of them actually do have Ph.D.’s in
animal behavior or the like; some of them are outstanding communicators with dogs but not so much with fellow
human beings. Some of them are entirely
aware and fluent in why what they’re
doing works; some of them merely know that it works and that’s good enough for
them. So some of them will say things that are absolutely astute
and accurate to the science of animal behavior:
what they say really is a
reflection of what they do. Some of them will talk mystical mush or weird
faux ethology that may refer to dogs on another planet somewhere, but not this
one here: what they say is miles and miles away from what they actually do.
But it may be entirely irrelevant in either
case. I
could memorize every word Meryl Streep ever said
about acting or every word Tiger Woods ever said
about golf. It will get me no closer to
her talent or his golf swing. There
may—or may not—be kernels of wisdom I can glean, provided I can find a way to
translate them from theory to practice. There might be other equally accomplished
actresses, though, who believe the secret to their success is making sure they
drink enough orange juice and always have a blue feather on the set; there may
be other almost equally accomplished golfers who attribute their winning ways
to not washing their socks on Sundays and keeping a lucky rabbit’s foot in
their golf bag. Performers—even elite
performers—can be extremely stressed in their rarefied air, and extreme stress
can lead to the wackiest sorts of magical, superstitious thinking. These folks—we often refer to them as Naturals—are brilliant performers who
really haven’t got a clue how they do
what they do. Their actions are fabulous
but the action bone isn’t connected to the thinking bone. They can make outstanding competitors but
often lousy coaches: what they really do is intuitive, even unconscious, and
not something they can explain. In
dog training, this often shows up as the followers
of the elite competition gurus doing the equivalent of drinking lots of orange
juice, waving blue feathers, not washing their socks and keeping a rabbit’s
foot handy. The rabbit’s foot might have
some merit as a motivator in a pinch; the rest, of course, is rubbish. Using our dog training guru’s exact cue
words, brand of leash or preferred line of tug toys likely won’t hurt, any more than wearing Tiger Woods’
brand of golf shirts will cause harm.
I’m sure the cues, the toys and the shirts are all excellent, first
quality choices. They just may have
little or nothing to do with the skills actually at stake: wearing Tiger’s line of shirts will not
improve my golf swing. It may provide a
bit of a placebo effect: more
confidence, inspiration, feeling better about myself as a golfer. These things do count in the mental aspects
of performance and in my athletic sporting days, I loved my little quirks and
rituals. But these superstitious grace
notes, however endearing, aren’t the cause
of performance success. There’s a lot
more to it than that. And
if we ask: “What are the elite trainers doing when they train?” I hate to say, it still may not help us. Olag,
Bessie, Flo, and Serena have years
and years of experience getting
ridiculously good at their methods,
whatever they may be. Olag has spent
literally thousands of hours practicing
the Magic Bulgarian DPM—he’s a 10 at it.
Bessie and Flo and Serena have also paid serious dues in terms of
practice hours and hard work to get their 10’s in RUN!, HEEL! And PARTNERS! Buying their DVDs and adopting their “methods”
might get us on a path to taking our 2’s or 5’s or 6’s up a few notches, but
there’s an excellent chance that what’s really going to count in that
improvement is simply the practice, dues and hard work part of the equation.
Being a 2 or 3 on the Magic
Bulgarian PD Method-O-Meter is no more going to win us a World Title than what
we’ve been doing already. Winning World
Titles comes from becoming a 10 on some Method-O-Meter, whatever the method may
be. It comes from achieving real
excellence and mastery. It
doesn’t come from picking a shiny new hot method and continuing all our sloppy
old training habits. The pitfall is, we’re
a 3 at Method A, we get frustrated that we’re not “winning” (whatever that is
for us) so we look for a new method.
Method B, because it is new, reinvigorates our training. We work harder for a while, get up to a 4 on
the B-O-Meter, until we get frustrated, so we swap to Method C. Since we’re actually not as good
(technically) at C as we were at B, we’ll slip back to a 3—but it’s new so we
work harder and maybe get to our 4 again… until we get bored and frustrated and
start “method” shopping again. If we’re
not careful, we end up being wonderfully mediocre at a dozen methods and not
truly good at any of them. In
the end, there is no method born that can cover up poor fundamentals, not in any
performance sport and certainly not in dog training. Getting
from a 3 or a 6 or an 8 to a 10 takes hours of practice, payment of dues and
putting in the effort it takes to reach true excellence. And, obviously, getting from a 3 to a 10
takes more hours, dues and work than getting from an 8 to a 10—we have much
farther to go. The old saw that the journey
of a 1000 miles begins with a single step is true. The adjunct to the saw ought to be that we
can’t walk that thousand miles if we keep hiking off in all directions looking
for shortcuts. Paying
patient attention to perfecting our fundamentals, striving for quality in
technique and execution, taking care with the details, practicing and working
hard are all keys to achieving excellence in performance. Unfortunately, if you’re like me, words like patience, fundamentals, technique, details,
practice and hard work aren’t always
as alluring as guaranteed, immediate
results, and so easy a child could do
it. I would prefer my 5-star gourmet
dinner to come in a can I can heat on the stove, you bet I would. Reality is so darned annoying at times. But
Reality is Our Friend—and can be our dogs’ Very Best Friend--if we embrace
it. Olag, Bessie, Flo, and Serena train
their competition dogs every day, three times a day, in rigorously planned
sessions. Olag and Bessie, bless them,
both use a motivational technique to improve drive in their dogs that involves hideous amounts of dashing--suddenly bursting into excited
sprints and then whirling their (Malinois and Border collie, respectively)
around at the end of a tug toy. Reality: I am old enough to be Olag’s mother and my
dog outweighs Bessie’s by thirty pounds:
I can dash and tug only so much.
Lots of the exercises Flo uses are very effective and work like a charm;
others, though, require patience and attention to detail that bore me silly, never mind my dog. Serena’s Freestyle exercises are amazing and
great fun, but the one where her Papillion jumps up and rebounds off her thigh
doesn’t look like a good idea with my linebacker of a dog. So
in the end, unless I find a training guru who is very much like me (only better) and who has a dog very
much like mine (only better), I’m
going to have to pick-and-choose from all the wonderful methods, exercises and
techniques spread out before me. If I
can only train once a day, find dashing problematic and can’t get Tinker
interested in tennis balls, I’m going to have to adapt the Magic Bulgarian Police Dog Method or whatever to what
Tinker and I can actually do without crashing into walls or wrenching my back. And it just may be that the pieces of Olag’s
program that I select as doable aren’t the pieces that led to his World
Championship success. It even may be
that what led to Olag’s success has less to do with Olag—and his Method—than it
appears. It
may be that Olag--in addition to his years of experience, thrice daily training
sessions, ability to dash, excellent timing, true passion and dedication, a
work ethic that won’t quit, athletic
body of an Olympic sprinter and opportunity to devote himself full-time to
nothing but training, training and more training—has something else that you and I probably don’t have. Olag
has a purpose-bred dog from champion lines that was specifically bred for his
sport. So does Bessie. Both of their sports require the highest
levels of canine drive and athleticism, among other things. Flo’s sport is less exacting athletically but
requires precision, biddability and trainability; likely she, too, will have a
breeding of choice. Only Serena—in
Freestyle, a relatively new sport where the competition isn’t yet as cut-throat
and value is placed on artistry, inventiveness and creativity—is likely to be
less fussy, since in theory she can take what a dog has and make it beautiful
in its own right. That’s one of the
charms of Freestyle. Though even for
her, a three-legged Basset Hound or a dog with bad hips is probably out. That
having the right dog matters, and
matters hugely, is obvious but somehow frequently over-looked in the unending
quest for the Magic Performance Method. Starting
a new puppy and training it up to world-class level is an enormous investment
of time and energy; top competitors aren’t going to gamble that investment on
dogs of unknown quality regardless of their method. People who compete at top levels or who need
dogs for particular important jobs (leading the blind, search and rescue,
police dog work) don’t just go out and snag any ole litter of random puppies in
a box in front of a store. They select
very thoughtfully and carefully (and often obsessively) from lines of top
breeders or they breed their own specialty lines to get, as much as they can control
for it, exactly the physical and behavioral traits their sports require: sound conformation, size, speed, quickness,
courage, biddability, trainability, intelligence, nose and drive drive drive. Because
they know--the difference the right dog
makes is simple. It’s
the difference between Ms. Streep taking me, with my measly starting 2 on the
Act-O-Meter, and turning me into the next Oscar winner—versus taking an
ambitious and extremely talented young actor who comes to her with an already
established 7. Or between poor Mr.
Woods attempting to do something with my .5 pathetic golf swing vs. the game of
a hot college golfer who already is a 6 or 7 or 8. Give a seriously talented coach a seriously
talented performer and amazing things can happen. Give them me and the gap between 2 and 10 or
.5 and 10 may be too wide for any method,
however brilliant, to overcome. We
never like to hear this, in any form.
Our culture is steeped in a mythos of frogs turning into princes, Rocky
winning the boxing match, the unlikely David slaying Goliath. We love our underdog stories—the firm belief
that anything is possible if we work hard enough, have enough faith and wish
upon the right stars. And I’d be the
last person to deny it, because I love those stories too. Of course miracles happen. Sometimes.
But
the math is a little scary. According to
one good source that crunches a bunch of statistics, only 1 in 16,000 high
school athletes go on to play professionally.* At the end of the day, there are only so many
teams in so many leagues with so many positions to fill: not thousands. Hundreds.
In dog agility, to pick one sport, there are only so many leagues
holding so many trials—only one dog in each height of each class will finish
first. Getting titles is one thing: in most doggy sports, the dog/handler team
has to earn enough qualifying scores for that, and anyone (with the right dog)
who is reasonably skilled, committed and puts in the effort has a shot at that. Becoming a National or World Champion is
another formula. Elite world-class
handler/dog teams, like in professional sports, are measured in a few hundreds,
perhaps, not thousands. Olag and Bessie
are famous in their sports not because they are many but because they are so
very few: there’s only one spot for
number one and it’s one. What
saddens me about this is how “method” gets unduly emphasized with little regard
for the rest of the package. This shows
up in endless debates about “method” on Facebook or other social media groups,
with the primary hot point being the use of punishment in dog training. Inevitably, when the debate gets heated,
somebody will trot out, “Nobody ever won the Muckety-Muck Dog World Title
without using corrections. Olag uses corrections.” Olag,
as we’ve already seen, does a heck of a lot more than that. The proof is that most
of the folks he beat in winning the
title (and there are far more that lost than won) also use corrections and they didn’t win. Winning a sporting event, especially at elite
levels, is simply never a one-trick pony with everything riding on
“method.” Winning an elite event is
always a Perfect Storm. A talented
handler has a talented dog, uses a solid, scientifically sound training system that
fits the dog/handler team, prepares endlessly, practices their hearts out, gets
to the trial and puts it all together.
They have a great day. The
handler avoids making any dire mistakes; the dog doesn’t make any dire
mistakes. They don’t get sick or injured
at exactly the wrong time; another elite contender does twist an ankle just before the match. It doesn’t rain—or it does and Olag’s dog
loves working in the rain. They’re
showing under a judge that happens to like their style (yes, it matters) and
the judge doesn’t mess up any calls
(it can happen.) All of Olag’s—or
Bessie’s or Flo’s or Serena’s--hard work and experience, all of the dog’s
talent and training, come together for a few magic moments and they give the world-class
Winning Performance. Perfect
Storms are beautiful, swirls of all that talent, all that preparation, all that
hard work, meeting just a bit of luck and the right circumstances and timing. They can’t happen without the front end: the talent, the preparation, the work—the 10
on the Train-O-Meter. But there are
marvelous Hall of Fame worthy golfers who didn’t win nearly as many golf
tournaments as they should have simply because they had the misfortune to be
playing their prime in the Age of Tiger.
There are beautiful actresses who gave heart-stopping performances who
didn’t win their Oscar because they were nominated in a Meryl Streep year. That little bit of luck, that dash of timing,
a single tiny slip—it all matters. And
for every ambitious, talented child who rises through the ranks of the sand lot
to the Big Show (the 1 out of 16,000) there are thousands and thousands of kids
in Little Leagues and Pee Wee Leagues who leave the field in tears of shame and
frustration. The coach yelled at them;
their parents yelled at them. They
dropped the ball or struck out. They tried—they played their tiny hearts
out—but they didn’t quite have the needed skill, the extra time to practice, a
tip from a mentor that would have helped.
They weren’t as tall as the other kid, or as strong or coordinated. They were on the team—and in sports there is
always one on that end, too—that lost.
Many of these kids come away from the experience soured forever on
sports, or with rotten memories of their parents, or with a terrible message
installed in their heads at a fragile time:
I’m not good enough. If the only thing that counts is Being Number One, only one in the field
will count. The rest are losers. Most
of us know better. We know that sports
for kids should be about things other than winning. The competition should be a celebration of
effort, of improvement, teamwork, building character and learning to do our
very best and be gracious regardless of the result. We—most of us—take a very dim view of
tyrannical “stage parents” who bully and punish their tiny tots through all
manner of performance weirdness—fashion shows and beauty pageants for 6 year
olds, all the junior sports, school musicals and talent shows. We—most of us—frown on parents and coaches who
get so wrapped up in “winning” that they project their own frustrated egos and
power trips into a game that should be fun
and make the kids miserable for it. And
most of us would be seriously upset to find out that Coach took little Jimmy
behind the barn and took a belt to his behind for missing a curve ball in the
sixth inning. I
think we should consider this for our dogs, too. For every one of Olag’s dogs that win a world
title, there are thousands more competing in canine sports with no choice and
no voice. Those of us who own them—most
of us without Olag’s talent, Olag’s dog, his experience or ridiculous work
ethic—are amateurs in minor leagues. And
a 5 on the Train-O-Meter using Olag’s Magic Method is likely no more winning
than a 5 using any other method, because 5’s are 5’s, not tens. Merely adding permission to punish because “Olag does it and he wins world titles” isn’t going to boost our sand lot skills to
Major Leagues. It
is likely to send a whole lot of dog kids home in tears. For
those of us who enjoy performing in local theater or recreational sports,
looking up to heroes like Meryl or Tiger or Olag doesn’t mean that we have to
play the same game with the same values.
We don’t. We’re not in it for
Oscars or Majors or World Titles. We’re
in it for something else, something I find very beautiful. The
word amateur comes from the Latin amator—a lover. We do
it because we love it. We participate in
doggy sports because we love our dogs and want to do something together with
them. We know—most of us—that dog
training and competition should be a celebration of effort, of improvement,
teamwork, building character and learning to do our very best and be gracious
regardless of the result. We should also
know and be proud and confident in this:
winning is only one measure of success. Another
is Joy. Sure,
I’d love to win a title or competition with Tinker. I just have additional criteria for what
counts as winning. Because I am
an amateur, because a World Title isn’t on the table, because I still have
about 899 miles on the road of a 1000 miles to reach expertise in my method of
choice. I made a deal with my dog: not at your expense. Never at your expense. If I can’t get a performance from Tinker
that’s joyful, it doesn’t meet my
criteria. Because for me, joy is a measure of consent. So
I’m not Olag, nor Bessie or Flo or Serena.
Maybe I’m not as strong, or fast, or patient, or graceful. Maybe I’m not as experienced, organized or
precise. Maybe I will be one day--striving
for excellence is part of the fun for me.
Until then, though, to copy their “methods” without copying the things that make their “methods” work is to
stick a Rolls Royce hood ornament on my aging van and hope it’ll fix the engine. It’s
orange juice, blue feathers and unwashed socks:
magical thinking. And
it’s wrong. Not because they are wrong—they aren’t the
least bit wrong for them. It’s wrong for
me because their methods don’t always
include my criteria: that victory for us—for me and Tinker as a
team--isn’t about putting winning first. It’s about putting joyful, willing performance first.
It’s about a kid who leaves the sand lot beaming because she caught one
ball, even if she muffed two and struck out twice. It’s about the twinkle in the eye that says, this is fun, let’s play again. It’s about, if I can’t train this with joy, I need to get better as a trainer. It’s
okay to put joy first. It’s okay to play
for love. It’s okay to admit we will never win an elite world
title with our dogs using our “methods.”
Neither will hundreds of people using Olag’s. Methods are only direction; excellence is a
1000 miles of steps with no short cuts. It’s
not a trip everyone cares to make, and that’s okay, too. If our goal is a part in the local theater’s
production of Annie, a few strokes
off our golf score or a better behaved pet dog around the house, Meryl, Tiger
and Olag may be the very best at going 1000 miles but plenty of talented,
experienced folks can get us the 89 miles we really need for success. That doesn’t make us losers, less than the
elite or less serious about achieving real excellence in those 89 miles. It
makes us lovers on a field of play that is every bit as valid as World Championships, only smaller and defined by victories
more personal. Of
course, we can all drink more orange juice, borrow a blue feather from a movie
set and get a super cool Tiger Woods golf shirt… who knows how far we might go? (*From High School to Pro – How Many
Will Go? Copyright 2006, Georgia Career Information Center, Georgia
State University and its licensors.) Note: For anyone who wants a marvelous look at how
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recommend Malcolm Gladwell’s outstanding book The Outliers. |
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